Dear Henry, how are you? Are you feeling better? I hope so.
Firstly, I would like to say that after reading all the
comments in reply to your post (in Baidu and on other fan sites), I think that
for every 1 anti-fan you have, you have 5 people in support of you.
Secondly, seriously, how can these people pass judgement on
you without even knowing the circumstances? I highly doubt that these ‘fans’
know the true facts, as most of the time, reports are either just rumours,
false or exaggerated. Also, can anyone besides you really claim to know exactly
what you’re feeling/going through? No.
Of course you have feelings too, it’s just that these people
are too selfish and too wrapped up in their own opinions to care.
I believe that you’ve done more than enough. I don’t think
you can do anything more, and anything else you do wouldn’t be enough for these
people, so don’t even try. They’ll probably just find something else to
criticise.
Don’t give them the satisfaction of seeing you and Zhoumi
upset; I know it hurts but be strong boys. If they see that their comments have
affected you, they’ll only continue in the hope that they’ll wear you down and
make you lose hope.
This is probably terrible
cliché but remember the saying Henry, sticks and stones. And never forget that:
a)We may be circumscribed by our
situations, but we are not defined by them. Everyone has a choice: to fall
under their weight or to rise above them;
b)When reality fails us, we still have our dreams; and
c)With all its sham, drudgery and broken
dreams, it is still a beautiful world.
Be Happy.
Angeline Kuek (Singapore/Melbourne, Australia)
