I think you really need to grow up like a real man. Afterall, I think Huanhuan is the one who gets hurt the most after you open up your mouth talking about this 20 year old relationship. Everyone can tell she starts to have feeling for you again after you sing the song for her. This whole thing all happen shortly after she just seperate with her ex. You should at least be like a man and appoligize for what happened, regardless how the production company edit their show. The reason is you are the one who pull the trigger and started the whole thing. The difference between you and Andy Lau is he cares every single fans of his more than you. He cares his image presented to his fan more than you do.
Huanhuan is very straight forward person. Very graceful, very talented. You could very well tell her how you admire her in private from the beginning. In stead, you chose to make it public. If this is your choice, you have to take your share of the social responsibility, which means you need to think more about people's reaction before you jump. Life is not only about your record. Everyone's feeling is equally important if you choose to be a public model. I think Huanhuan is much more mature than you in this matter.