It's our imagination that is responsible for love, not the other person.
——Marcel Proust
朝自己的内心看
Intimacy is "into-me-see." I am going to talk to you, my beloved, and I am going to share with you my most prized possessions, which are no longer my dowry and the fruit of my womb but my hopes, my aspirations (志向), my fears, my longings, my feelings—in other words, my inner life.