True love is need not all together on the, what they need is a spiritual communication and the tacit understanding. They respect each other way of life, and at the same time have their own personality and the world. They won't drown in together, because of excessive dependence on, especially for others body, time, space, material tend to occupy, not love, body and mind is not independent performance. Do not have, do not control, but with the spirit, so of love, you learn?