既然先写了与战争相关的一幕,就把和这个主题相关的其他时刻都写上先
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Let’s talk about this parallel right here. The producers have
put Matthew and Mary - who are seeing each other for the first time in a
long time - in the exact same positions that they were in during their
first dinner together, back in 1x02. They do this for the familiarity;
their context and purposes may have changed, but these people are still
the Matthew and Mary that we, the audience, have grown acquainted with.
It means something in-world, too, as Matthew/Mary have this established
rapport that revolves around the things they say taking a deeper meaning
and both reflecting and contradicting the way that they feel. This
begins when they first meet in 1x02, with Mary’s scathing “I wouldn’t
want to push in”, and builds from there, becoming as much a
part of them as it is a symbol of their relationship.
In 2x01 this element of Matthew/Mary is moulded again, this
time to fit the WWI backdrop of the season. Matthew comes home to
Downton and tries as best he can to leave the war behind him, taking
comfort in the routines and regularity he equates with that lifestyle.
But his want to leave the war behind is not synonymous with what
actually happens, and he finds himself seeing things at a distance; in
many ways returning home and feeling like he doesn’t is more difficult
for him than facing the war front. And then there’s Mary - Matthew is
close to his mother and loves her dearly, but Mary is his only true
equal, and the only person in the world who he can speak candidly to -
through their established repertoire, of course. It’s Mary alone who
asks him what the war front is like - everyone else keeps up the charade
that Downton is a refuge away from the conflict, for Matthew - and if
it was anyone else Matthew would’ve gone into military strategy, or
brushed off the question; only it’s Mary, so he doesn’t. He tells her
that he can’t talk about it; not that he doesn’t want to or that he
doesn’t need to, but that he can’t. It’s an emotional repsonse
and he feels safe enough to give it because it’s Mary, and Mary is the
only one who is able to see his heart.